March 2012
troopinsince93:
“Talking” to someone is so confusing. It feels like you’re together, but you’re not so you can’t really get mad if they talk to someone else or do shit with someone else. It comes with all the feelings of being in a relationship but none of the benefits.
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February 2012
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“Yet my manners are certainly peculiar, not all masculine but rather softly...”
– Anne Lister
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Anonymous asked: Yes I did read your post. I'm not being insulting, but you just sounded rude there. Like I said, I am not trying to change your opinion, I'm putting a different one across. And you do know who I am. And were willing to put across an opposite opinion from my one. But yeah, like I said, you just sound rude now so I'm off. See ya.
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Anonymous asked: Ugly is an insult, but your family use it in a way so it is not. That is what I mean. Bitch is not being used as an insult, even though the world itself is. If you cared about someone, you wouldn't use it. If that person then goes on to be bullied, it wouldn't be your responsibility. I don't think it's acceptable to somehow justify why bullies behave that way because some...
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Anonymous asked: And it has everything to do with how they take it. To me, my best friend calling me a bitch as banter isn't insulting. To you, it would be. That doesn't mean it's completely wrong for her to say anything like that, it just means you need to judge the person before you start. And if they're your best friend or partner, and that's the kinda person they are, there's...
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Anonymous asked: But bullying isn't a one off incident, and also, the whole throwing insults around is banter between friends or like you said, family. Not just saying it to someone you hardly know. You know if you're bullying someone, because bullying is different from upsetting them once. And you said they don't know at first, but if they continue it on, they know they're doing wrong. Also,...
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Anonymous asked: But again, calling someone ugly isn't playful.. Ugly, fat etc, aren't insults that could ever be playful or teasing. I'd call my girlfriend a bitch and laugh about it when she does something to wind me up. I'd never say "Hi, ugly" to her because in no way is that affectionate. And bullying is when you are going out of your way to hurt someone. Not when you say...
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Anonymous asked: You can be lovey dovey whilst also being playful. I tease my girlfriend, but I don't say stuff like "Omg you're a fat bitch hahahah". I think it depends on how you say it and what kind of person they are, but I wouldn't say it has any kind of connection to bullying. Being in a playful relationship is completely different to being in a mentally abusive one.
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I must be weird but,
I don’t want a playful relationship. I like being all lovey dovey with the person for whom I have feelings. That doesn’t mean I want a serious relationship, and I do want to be able to be my partner’s best friends too. I just don’t think calling each other names and things like that is being playful. I don’t even do that with my friends. There is a difference between...
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Dear Tumblr;
Thank you so much for these new icons. I liked them till I found out I can’t use the stylish add-on to change them. I think that’s what you wanted from the start.
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What's so funny about cute messages?
I don’t get why people laugh at them.
I love getting cute messages.
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“And when was the last time… anyone played on your flute?”
– Miss Norcliffe - The Secret Diaries of Miss Anne Lister
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“You cannot doubt the love of one who has waited so long and patiently. I will be...”
– Anne Lister - The Secret Diaries of Miss Anne Lister
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There's so much food on my dash.
On a different note; when I get married me and my wife/husband are going on a cruise.
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I’ve lost 3,6Kg = 8lbs this first month. It isn’t much, but I feel like I’m getting somewhere this time.
Come on body!
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